Monday, December 21, 2009
Family gathering with a smile
Holiday gathering is about Family. Kids running around, my sister, insisting that her Chili is just as good as dad used to make. Cousins you only see once a year, yet you continue a conversation as if it was only yesterday. And Grandpa. Every year I prepare the kids, explain that Grandpa does not mean to be mean. This year I go help from the fellow blogger. She shares her experience and her latest post was about Caregiving for a Grumpy Loved One: 4 Tips to Bring a Smile. Hope you enjoy (and implement) some of the advise.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
THE HOLIDAYS PRESENT AN OPPORTUNITY TO ASSESS IF A SENIOR RELATIVE NEEDS ASSISTANCE
THE HOLIDAYS PRESENT AN OPPORTUNITY TO ASSESS IF A SENIOR RELATIVE NEEDS ASSISTANCE
Currently, 36 million seniors are living in the United States with projections of that number doubling in the coming years. Caring for a senior loved one is a reality most people will face. Senior Helpers, a leading provider of in-home senior care in the South-bay, suggests that when families gather together for holiday events it is a good time to watch for the following signs that a senior may need help to continue living safely in their homes.
10 Warning Signs A Senior Relative Needs Assistance
- The house is cold, the telephone is cut off.
- Losing track in a conversation, forgetting the names of children, grandchildren, the day of the week, etc.
- The death of a spouse.
- The refrigerator and cupboards are sparsely stocked.
- Personal hygiene is poor. Clothing appears soiled or rarely changed.
- Frequently making excuses when asked to go on outings, or requests to be left alone.
- Sudden weight loss.
- Never cleaning, or delaying home repairs.
- Failure to take prescribed medications as directed.
- Other various behavior changes.
It is much better to arrange for help for elderly family members while they can still be a part of the process rather than during a crisis. Seniors are often resistant to the idea of receiving help, however once they understand that home companion care allows them to stay in their homes they become more open to this option.
Senior Helpers’ elder care experts remind people to respect a senior family member’s pride and dignity when discussing the need for assistance. It is best to approach the topic with respect and understanding, and express concern for an elder person’s safety.
The best way to keep track of a senior family member’s situation is to keep in touch with them – and this is one time where being nosy is justified. Visit or call often and use one or more of the warning signs as a way to begin the conversation.
Currently, 36 million seniors are living in the United States with projections of that number doubling in the coming years. Caring for a senior loved one is a reality most people will face. Senior Helpers, a leading provider of in-home senior care in the South-bay, suggests that when families gather together for holiday events it is a good time to watch for the following signs that a senior may need help to continue living safely in their homes.
10 Warning Signs A Senior Relative Needs Assistance
- The house is cold, the telephone is cut off.
- Losing track in a conversation, forgetting the names of children, grandchildren, the day of the week, etc.
- The death of a spouse.
- The refrigerator and cupboards are sparsely stocked.
- Personal hygiene is poor. Clothing appears soiled or rarely changed.
- Frequently making excuses when asked to go on outings, or requests to be left alone.
- Sudden weight loss.
- Never cleaning, or delaying home repairs.
- Failure to take prescribed medications as directed.
- Other various behavior changes.
It is much better to arrange for help for elderly family members while they can still be a part of the process rather than during a crisis. Seniors are often resistant to the idea of receiving help, however once they understand that home companion care allows them to stay in their homes they become more open to this option.
Senior Helpers’ elder care experts remind people to respect a senior family member’s pride and dignity when discussing the need for assistance. It is best to approach the topic with respect and understanding, and express concern for an elder person’s safety.
The best way to keep track of a senior family member’s situation is to keep in touch with them – and this is one time where being nosy is justified. Visit or call often and use one or more of the warning signs as a way to begin the conversation.
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